Ever since I was a little girl i have had a dream pretty much every night and I am always able to remember them. I thought this was a normal thing but have spoken with and met many people who cannot remember their dreams or say they dont dream at all (including my own husband). So I am curious is the fact that i dream so often and am usually able to remember them mean that God could be trying to speak to me through dreams all this time and I have just been missing it? I never saw dreams as a form of communication from God until recently (about 5 years ago). But even then I still rarely record my dreams or pray about them, I have had about 3 or 4 dreams where I have awoken and prayed immediately or instantly gotten the message but thats about it.
First, let me say that it is almost a certainty that God is desiring to speak to you through your dreams. There are two very strong reasons for this. The first is simply, He desires to speak to all his people and dreams are a very normal way that He does it. The second is more personal and relates to the fact that you have such intensity in your dream life that you have a very specific call to hear Him in this way.
Everyone dreams. Medical science tells us that if you do not dream then your health will decay even to the point of death. The real issue is remembering dreams and that is something that many people struggle with for many different reasons (fear, not valuing them, lack of peace, etc.)
For you, beginning to value you dreams - writing them down, searching out their meaning, learning to understand them more fully and seeking God intentionally about them - will increase your understanding. It is actually more uncommon for an interpretation to be direct and instantaneous even when you pray immediately. Remember Proverbs 25:2 - it is the glory of God to conceal a matter and the glory of kings to search it out!