In the dream, my husband and I are in a room where I'm looking over a railing down at him his back to a (white exterior) door coming from outside looking up at me and we're arguing. My husband said angrily he picked up the snake and held it, I said in a firm voice well I cut it up put in soup and ate it, then woke up.
This dream relates to a verbal attack - probably in the form of lies or accusations - that your husband has held onto, but you have internalized. It is possible that this attack has created a level of stress upon your marriage and the Lord is wanting to deal with it. This is a call to pursue the Lord in prayer to overcome, release and let go of what the enemy has been doing in your life.